IR- at what point do you have to take the class? Sounds like a good thing.
So, saw the coach today, of course he didn't come. Told her about the video games, etc., not coming when she calls him b/c he's in the middle of a game, and saying negative things about me to her. Her response: "I'm very concerned."... She said for a 3 year old, the experts do not recommend starting out with 50/50 time, that you work up to that and they live with the one they're most bonded to primarily in the meantime, seeing the other parent as often as everyone wants. She said switching houses for a 3 year old every 2 days is WAY too much transition. How I would communicate this to him in a way he can hear me I don't know. Feeling very overwhelmed.
If I can afford to see her, she fills a gap in a great way between the L and an IC and is totally D- and child/co-parenting-focused. The hour went by so fast, trying to get her up to speed on everything, but I will see her again next week. Will post more in the alt.
