New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

You have paid for 100% of car stuff as I recall, which you certainly didn't have to. And the glasses. So asking her to take care of this one certainly isn't unreasonable.

In the future, maybe you can split medical/dental stuff 50/50 since that's typically what ends up being put in any kind of D decree from what I've seen.

Glad you are going forward with seeing the kids for labor day weekend! And also nice that she didn't ask why. Your actions definitely speak for your love for your kids.