Isn't it brilliant when our kids become our friends when they grow up. My son is the same ... I can have adult conversations and debates with him now. He is such an interesting person. And so are my daughters.
You have more than overcome ... you have thrived. I don't feel you have any anger or resentment anymore either ... not even for son. I could be wrong, of course, but your posts are so much lighter and happier even when you mention XH.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim