First, sorry you are here. You will find a strong support group here. There are some very helpful pros on this site. Seek out Coach, sandi2, Greek, pinhead.
It sounds like your H is having a mid life crisis. Please read the forums explaining how to deal with that.
It sounds like you have taken steps to heal. Keep doing those things and place yourself first. Protect yourself emotionally as well as in every other way.
Please let me know how you are doing and try to get support from the others I mentioned- they have been on these boards for quite awhile and their advice is amazing.
