What am I supposed to do???

[Tay Tay]

Thank you for the encouragement. I am on to Day 5 of no contact. It is hard but I do feel like it is getting easier. If he is not calling me that means that he does not want to talk to me. So why would I want to talk to someone that does not want to talk to me or the kids anyway.

This is what I'm trying to remember to maintain my NC. He's not calling me, he's not calling to talk to D, so why would I want to just pick up the phone and chat with him?

Why do you think it is that they don't call? It is killing me not to call him. I think one of the reasons that it is irritating me so bad is because I talked to the OW on August 20th. I told her everything that there was to tell. My husband got so upset with me and I have never seen him that upset. He told me that he wanted nothing else to do with me. He was coming over every Saturday or Sunday for the six months that we have been seperated. Since I talked to the OW he has not come over. It has been 2 weeks and the kids are feeling it.