Have you secured council yet? If not, i suggest that you have a sit down with an attny. I know that your H is an attny but I suggest that you hire or consult with the best in your state.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans