Get a third party to handle your emails... why talk to him at all?

You can get a third party to handle visitation... Are there any rules set up yet for visitation by law?

If no then let him have supervised visitation only... get someone to watch him while he's with your Son and he can't let the S out of their sight.

Write up questions for your L, don't wait til you get there to think of them... Custody and $$ support will be your main ones...