Well, I can say I am definitely more of the first type mentioned.
I didn't even think about it until you just mentioned it in that post, but last night she left me alone on her laptop for about 15min, with her email open, and later in the night she also left me alone with her cell phone unlocked.
I didn't bother to look at anything, but I guess just the fact that those things happened says something.
I think I really am detached enough that I just don't care enough to need anything from her.
It's like I'm looking at this, and treating her the same way I would treat a girl I just started seeing.
