So H took S5 to his apt and introduced him to OW without discussing it first with me. I have told him clearly I am not ok with OW being around S, and when confronted, claimed he never heard me say that. He also said he thinks I'm lying when I say that I see S have tantrums literally for hours each week, the day he returns from dad's. He said he is going to take S to his place when he wants to and introduce him to whom he wants to without consulting me. Oh, yes, and of course, I am crazy.
I am talking to a Lawyer tomorrow. I am rereading all of your posts here, including Allen's. Any more support and advice welcome.
My state has 50/50 custody laws so I'm scared it's going to be a big battle.
I have gone dim, and H has been cutting out the verbal abuse, except for last night when I tried to talk to him about how he crossed a boundary and disrespected me. Of course, the abuse returned.
So I'm back to NC. Only emails. No pleasantries. Help!
