Quite frankly, he's crazier than a loon, if you ask me. First, my radar went up on the offer to watch the boys for you. To me that means less money coming your way for child support. Second, his comment about the boys and their rooms..sounds to me like he wants to see what's up with where you live.
I don't trust him one iota. You've email was very business-like and courteous...he's playing the game and wants his responses to be in writing so that he can show that he's offered to assist you. Be careful.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
