I know Gucci is right. My W has consistently said this, though she masks it at times because of guilt; hurting me, hurting our kids. And yes, some doubt in her mind that it's the right thing to do. That's normal I think.
I think this is really my last chance. I can't let her talk me out of it like last Monday.
And yes, this scares me more than anything I've done in my life, because I'm the one deciding, not waiting on someone else to decide for me.