Exactly Mishka! Although it sounds hard, I like the fact that I am going to dinner with H for S's actual b-day because then when the shoe is on the other foot, which won't be for a few years, the tradition is already set and we will still do dinner on his actual birthday. As for parties, I will have mine when it is my weekend and H will have his when it is his weekend. I think this way it is fair because we both see him on his b-day.
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