It just so happens that those two visions match up.
So you DO know what she wants you to be?
Why does she think that you can't or won't?
Because I've said so before, and haven't made it stick. Many time when she's threatened to leave before - the adage, "oh I will change" mantra that we speak when first confronted with this situation. Times before it's been two weeks, a month, or two months... but I go back to doing the same.
Granted, they weren't all as serious as this before.
She rightly feels that way.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
