Just catching up...I think you are doing a great job responding to your W. You definitely are in a better place now than several months ago.
I am just a little bit concerned about her asking for help in the form of money (although I know this was several weeks back)...and I have said this to you before. I know it is a catch 22- if you don't help her out...she may say you weren't there for her when you needed her. But by giving her money...you are enabling her. She isn't suffering the consenquences of her actions...or lack of action.
Just my opinion...FWIW.
Did you establish the boundary....no more financial help while OM is still in the picture?
