I have thought about your sitch several times today and your recent post really pisses me off.
The nerve of this piece of chit to take the money you need to feed your kids and continue to house them. First I would start contacting attny to see if you can get a free consultation asap. I would also contact the local court and see what type of representation you can get for yourself free of charge.
I would then contact the court and find out how you can file for an immediate order of support. He does not want to pay the bills - well then the courts will make him.
I would not sign a fu*king thing. Nothing.
Do you have family that can help?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans