And I know my W knows this, and that's probably one of the main reasons she left. Her reasons now for not coming home are because she can't trust that I will make changes, or the changes I make will not stick.
Do what are you going to do about it? You are too worried about her wearing/not wearing the ring.
Do you know what changes is she worried about? Not what she tells you but what her actions tell you.
I just recently found that I am completely unable to read my W.
When she told me something she actually asked a question, when she asked a question, it was not a question. At times it was the body language that spoke opposite to her mouth. Confusing? Yes.
Sometimes smiles are not smiley and what you perceive as sadness or anger is nothing but tranquility. I had to learn (still am) how to keep my mouth shut and when to open it. It has been counterintuitive but something I think is working.
