It was my ninth anniversary yesterday, and there was not even a word mentioned about it. I cannot believe it. We did nothing, and I really did not even think about it. I guess it was right to do nothing for her.
I don't know.
I DO KNOW and it WAS the right thing not to acknowledge it. I had my 14th in July in the midst of all this and it was also her birthday on top of it. I said nothing to her about either. There is nothing for us or for you to celebrate. It means nothing anymore unless you are working together towards a reconciliation. Otherwise, nothing.
The fact that you really didn't even think about it should speak volumes.
