you don't need a 2x4, what you need is a pat on the back.
ok and maybe once in a while you need to allow yourself to be muffed about things without beating yourself up over it.
it is ok to wonder about the puter... it is ok to have doubts... it is ok to be scared.. it is ok to be stressed... it's also ok to just love and appreciate your h and let him love and appreciate you.
