"Well golly gee-whillikers, I sure hate losing my marriage, but what the hell, it's her/his perspective -- just as valid as mine. Here I thought I was being a good husband/wife, fulfilling my responsibilities, taking care of the home/finances/children, and here s/he was thinking I'm a useless unattractive worthless piece of sh*t. What are you going to do?
Nope.
You'd realize that you can't change their perspective, and it's their perspective and changes in their perspective that lead them to leave the marriage.
You can't change what you can't change. The only person's perspective you can change is your own, and by focusing on the past, the hurt, and the restentment, you are robbing yourself of enjoying your life right now and in the future.
Your time is going to be spent whether or not you use it wisely.
Your past, if you choose to view it this way, can be a learning/growing experience, an experience that confirms your resilience.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 08/30/1006:31 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
