We read it here all the time and I still am having trouble accepting it. We have to let go. I read Gucci's post to Pigskin and Coach chimed in. They are right and I just can't fully accept it. It's my own fault and my own weakness.
I can't expect to make any progress without doing what I really need to do. That includes accepting that this M may very well not end up like Coach's or Puppy's, etc. I do know that they had to do the hard work and didn't get to where they are today by doing the same things that I am. All the more reason to do it.
Maybe I'm not the best person to offer insight, as I like to think that I'm a vet now, but not above being corrected by those who have successfully DB'd.
Her getting no sleep sure isn't going to endear herself to you. I can't imagine anyone being able to be loving under those conditions. I'd be irritable too.
I just think you should do what I'm doing, which is get the process moving without any undue delays. The process is your clock. If she wants to try a hail mary pass and pull out a miracle victory, so much the better. At that point you tell her that all this BS is going to change on her part immediately because you are walking to the lawyer, pen in hand.
But she is quickly running out of time. You are sitting on the lead, in victory formation...
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
