I second what Seeking said and that is that you have my utmost respect.
As Time pointed out...drop the rope. Let his as* go.
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I can find someone who respects me
Start by respecting yourself. Your respect is not define by someone else. It is defined by YOU.
2G - right now you need to make this about YOU. Here is what I would like you to do.
Now that he has filed, what are YOU going to do? What are some of the things that you need to do?
For example: - Secure legal council - Create a budget so that you know what you need to take care of YOUR kids. - Determine what you will need in terms of medical insurance and premiums - Where do you want to live? - What car do you want to drive?
Once you start doing these things you will feel less like a victim and you will begin to realize that YOU and YOU alone can control YOUR life.
Yes you will miss your H - but as seeking said...he is so far gone. Personally, I would like to slap the chit out of him for doing this at a time when you are pregnant and need him...but then i realize that he is sick...he is hurt...so I have compassion.
The compassion that I refer to does not mean that you allow him to step all over you. It means that you can understand that right now he is f*cked up in the head and can only think about himself. You sweetie...need to think about YOU.
You can do this...you can.. It may be scary right now but as you face that fear as you begin to piece together your life you will see things that you have not seen yet...the best thing that you will see.....
Is what you are made of and who you are.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
