WAW Using God III

[pigskin]

You aren't being honest with yourself.

I agree. You are trying to play both sides and it doesn't work. You said early on that you would never D because it went against your beliefs and values (I understand that). Then you filed for D. It comes across in your posts, if we can sense it then imagine what you wife feels.

Not a 2x4 but a observation from my perspective.

Cheers

I hope my follow up makes more sense, coach. I don't think I'm playing both sides, it's just the 4th quarter here and I'm not letting her slide. I told her I need full commitment - both of us working the issues the other says we have. She is not being let off the hook, I'm not begging her to reconsider. I am cool either way, and I am ready either way. Maybe that IS playing both sides, I don't know.

I DON'T want a divorce; none of us would be here if that were the case, but if that is what happens, I will be totally happy moving on to my new life.