I peaked at another post and read your reply to brave WAW who came here for guidance.
I think that her thread is interesting and good to read but you need to put things into perspective. She is NOT your W and you should not look at her and translate this over to your W's situation. You were commenting about your W and that was ALL mindreading. You will only drive yourself nuts if you're trying to draw unsubstantiated parallels.
I sure hope all WAW would think the same but it would be so naive to day that.