It's still so difficult to see pursuing on our part. For me, anyway. When I read Gucchi's breakdown of the post, I can see where things could have been handled differently. I don't want to throw Pigskin under the bus. He did pretty good. It simply show you how hard it is to really, truly and fully let go. I know I'm not there yet, either.
It also shows that we do still have time to get it right. Yes, his W sounds like she is cake eating and she knows that he wants her back. She has yet to do anything about it. If he does tell her it's over because he want it over, will that make a difference? It may. Then again it may not. I know that anything is better than limbo. I also understand holding on to hope. It seems so final to give in and let them go, when that seems to be the only thing that works, if anything will work.
