I'm afraid you're right! lost a best friend when ex#1 was stalking me--too scary. lost another best friend after I lost son #2--too much sadness. lost a couple of good friends over the past year--don't know why, exactly. yeah, I've reached out to them and they have stopped answering, even when I just say hi, Happy Birthday, stuff like that.
and getting out? did that with a group in June--it was a blast. have orchestrated trying a repeat...but so far unsuccessfully.
nothing yet on the job. these things move slowly!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012