Another story of a WH and an LBS

[Babydoll]

WH is telling you something here. He can't do it NOW.

Agreed! H used to say "not right now". Sometimes they scare themselves when they realize they still have feelings for us!

If he wants to raise her together, then I think this is a good thing..not an EASY thing, a good thing, for bubs.

If nothing else, bub lucks out with THREE parents!

Your WH needs to continue his therapy and introspection into why he keeps making unhappy choices for himself..it's his journey..don't help him.

Agreed! Good thing he still is in Ic!

He said that he was going to try to let me go.

Maybe he needs to try this to realize its not what he wants. Not what an LBS wants to hear, but basically he is fighting the feelings he has to want to be with you! My H tells me now, he fought his feelings to R months ago... Wasn't sure if it was because he missed me or b/c of the baby and pregnancy. Said he didn't want to say anything until he was 100 % certain that he wants to stay and work on our M. Maybe ypur H is going through the same thing?

I already said that he is using my friendship... but I guess what I learned today is that I'd still go to therapy with him. But we are so not there.

in time! Let time take its course... He is using your friendship... Because he finds your friendship invaluable! And when he "let's you go" he will miss it!!!!

Sorry to give you my two cents and compare your H to mine, but our sitches seem quite similar at times. And I find it interesting that H is telling me how he felt all along... Thought I'd share insight on what could possibly be going on their minds!!!