He stayed out all night now many times and you think its jsut emotional?
He IS morally obligated to respect you in your own home... PERIOD... stop second guessing yourself.. This is you getting ill.. anyone OUTSIDE of your home would call you on this in a heartbeat.. you accept it because of the conditions he has you living in...
He's not done, he's lying and he's abusive... He's pushing boundaries of fidelity and using "I'm done" as an excuse... He's not done, all cheaters say they are done to justify their affair to themselves... stop making excuses for his behaviour.
Get out of there.
Take the kids, move, get out of there... He's abusive and he's messing with your head.
