My opinion on this? Go to orientation if you want to go to orientation. Don't go if you don't want to go.
None of this is about STBXW and it really would be healthy for you and your girls if you can work your way past being in the same room with STBXW sooner than later.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!