I will stress this again.

GET OUT of MARRIAGE MODE

He's lying, he's cheating, he's abusive.. get OUT of there NOW

STOP trying to cooperate or negotiate with him in this situation...

This is similar to the hostile witness in a court of law...

This guy isn't cooperating with you, so STOP COOPERATING with HIM.

CRUEL?

Try having your spouse cheat on you, unilaterally end their marriage to you, and then not even support you moving out of the home...

THAT is what HE is doing, THAT is cruel

Last edited by Allen A; 08/30/10 03:13 PM.