Yes, but she was saying that by starting a tradition of both of them being there for a special dinner on S's actual birthday then she would not miss out of his birthday no matter what the holiday/significant date agreement is.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!