Wow. That seems so cruel. I know I'm supposed to step out of my comfort zone, and that he is being cruel to me, but it feels wrong. And a part of me wonders, if he is actually NOT having an affair....... Won't this be the completely wrong thing to do?

I have one more option for intel gathering. I will see what I cone up with, talk to L and go from there. I can do the move out thing but I just don't jnow if it's in me to do it as a surprise.


Me 30 H 29
DC 9, 7, 2
M 4 years, T 6 years
ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10
He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too
Physically separating end of September