He didn't warn you he was starting an affair... So you don't warn him...
There's no lease...
I would check all of this plan out with your lawyer FIRST... But my advice is you wait til he's planning to be gone all day or out all night...
You take everything you need and you get out of there with the kids... Then you send him a written letter outlining visitation as per what the lawyer suggests.
I don't think you need to tell him where they are living, but I could be wrong... He just needs to have access to them... You give him that... You meet him at a libarary or whatever WITH a good friend to keep an eye on im...
You meet him one on one with teh kids he will just walk away with them to piss you off...
YOu allow him to visit them, but that's it
You get a separation agreement together that outlines the details of his access and all support payments...
You dothis from the safety of your OWN NEW HOME with the kids ina SAFE environment that isn't rife iwht infidelity, conflict, and deception...
THAT is how you should do this... I don't think there's anything illegal about you moving out of a rental wtihout giving him notice...
If you can't find a good friend to handle the visitation then you get a social worker or a policeman or something to supervise... you tell them he MAY get violent and they should be in there for you
