Originally Posted By: Coach
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Sort of an initial pang of jealousy until I remembered there is nothing about her I find remotely attractive.


Maybe keep one of those basting brushes handy as a reminder. grin laugh

Become aware of what triggers those negative emotions then dispute them. ABCDE.

Have fun in WDW.

Cheers


Thanks Coach! Basting brush was tossed in the trash a while back.

And I must have learned something here, b/c when I felt the jealousy, ABCDE is EXACTLY what I did. I believe the trigger is not that she's with someone else. It's my unjustified fear I will not find the right person ever again.

Rationally, I KNOW that's foolish. Emotionally, well, emotions don't have much to do with rational thought, do they?

The kids and I are going to have a great time. And I still have a bunch of timeshare points left, so maybe I go by myself later and play golf, lounge by the pool. If only Disney had a casino and the Bellagio....!!!! wink

Last edited by givingitmyall; 08/30/10 02:36 PM.

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