Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Well - here to clear up a couple of things. First, you guys are right. I am obsessing. But I've not asked her about the rings at all, don't plan to.

1. Today dropped son off at W "house/room". She was still in bed asleep. Woke her up, she feels like crap. She said thank you for yesterday, she appreciated it, I didn't have to do it, was sorry she called me. I said "No problem. It was the right thing to do." She then sat up in bed, picked her ring off her nightstand and put it on. I made a "hmmph" sound - I know, bad. She told me that she's lost so much weight she has to take off all her jewelry at night now because it either falls off, or in particular her ring turns inside her hand and scratches her face (it's very loose). She then complained that how she hadn't been eating properly probably brought on the kidney stones. I just validated - I didn't ask for her to say that, she just offered it. Her explanation was genuine. Explains why she wasn't wearing the ring at the hospital - she went there after she went to bed the night before.

2. I was wrong about the L. I found out she had a speeding ticket that was due on Aug 18th. She hired a traffic attorney for $75 to take care of the ticket on Aug 12th. Total charge was $210... $75 for attorney and $135 for ticket. I found a copy of the ticket and reciept from attorney in the bills when I paid them late last night.

Either way - I should't be obsessing about these things - and I'm not at this point - but I wanted to clarify for the board here what the truth was.

So, she's actually told the truth for once.