The problem is that our sitch's really aren't that different, even though we've neglected our wives. All of the WAS feel neglected to some degree.
It's a very fine line we're walking, and though I'm trying something different, I'm starting to see the wisdom in Gucci's path. Not just for me, but for all of us. No matter how strong I appear around W, how attentive I am to our kids, how confident I am, W is still in her fog. And perhaps the only way for that to dissipate is via some sort of separation.
We're all so scared of separation, like it's a curse that'll ruin us forever.
