I'm not going to be on the boards much today...have an ALL day meeting! arrgh. Wanted to post positives from yesterday...
1. h and I had a tremendous conversation about my work. He was SO attentive and validating about the way that I was feeling...I think I could take a lesson or two from him about LISTENING! He also told me that he foresees me getting a wonderful job I love.
2. h said "let me tell you about my school schedule for the next week"...this is a BIG one for me...It's important to me that he can share with me the plans for studying, etc, without worrying about my reaction.
3. h said me a very positive response to my email (I thanked him for the conversation re. trust).
practice, practice, patience, patience
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.