Quote: for the last week + I've been convinced that h was distancing himself from me...now that I look back on it I have to seriously wonder how much of it was in response to the "vibe" from me...and then us feeding off of each other.
"The Bonds that Make us Free" EXCELLENT book that deals with this very issue. It talks about deceiving ourselves into thinking that it is the other person, or coming up with some way to justify our behavior that is not honest with ourselves.
