from gardener's thread--I like this: "I want someone to show up by accident and stay by choice."
...and that people DO show up.
when is this supposed to start happening? because I'm still hemorrhaging connections, relationships. fewer now than a year ago, fewer then than in the months post-bomb.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
