No letters, you need to read the thread letting them go, do it lovingly but any of the stuff you want to do will not work. Notes, heart to heart conversations will not work with someone who states they are done. I have tried it, most of us have, and I dont think i have read one sitch where any of that worked.
Be her friend when she needs one.But dont force it. You guys have kids together?
Amen to that!
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
