throwing some of my wisdom in there:

my 1st marriage: xh brought women around our daughter, so much that daughter was kicked from her room to sleep on couch.

in my state a divorce class is mandatory, some of the things they state, DO NOT ABSOLUTELY DO NOT BRING SOMEONE AROUND YOU ARE DATING: When you feel this person will be a permanent fixture in your life, then maybe then bring them around minor children,.

we all know in a perfect world that would be so awesome as to not have our ex's put their needs first and always put the children's security first, but the reality is that-SUCKS!

i even had some family members say to me you can't expect them never to have another step parent. i said oh heck yeah,. with this divorce i'm not having my kids go through what my older did.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline