It is good that your perspective has changed. Don't let her change that now that you are in the place you are in.
Don't try to fix it for her with S. Let her do that herself. She has made the choices she has made. Do help your S when he needs it while you are with him if W is not around.
It is tough, and you will do what you need to.
Do not leave the house! It will not be best for the kids in the long run. Listen to your attorney. You attorney knows best.
You are doing great!!!
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097