Cat, I don't know your sitch but I just wanted so tell you that I'm touched by your concern for him. Even after what he did to you, you find a way to help him! No matter how much I dislike stbxw right now I know in my heart that if she was in a real jam I'd help her out. It has nothing to do with having feelings for them or even being friends with them etc. But instead it has to do with being the bigger person and not turning your back on those you once cared about- especially when it's your kids' parent.
You're one of the good ones!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again