So I obviously didnt go to W's house for dinner. Ended up just going to a movie with a buddy tonight saw the other guys, frggin hilarious BTW. W started texting me with guy questions: fixing her thermostat, doing this and that, I tried to help her through text. Then I finally typed to her, you have the web and google your questions? after the movie, I sent her a text asking if S was still awake?
W: Nope... they have both been in a bed for a while. I will have them call you when they get up?
Me: OK
W: you all setup at your apt?
Me: Not quite its harder getting an apartment then it is renting a house.
W: Why?
W: dont they follow the same guidelines?
ME:Some yes some no, I was willing to pay a few extra months up front with a house, with the apartment a computer decides if you are a good tenant prospect.
W:O W: have you looked in here for a place? I looked at few others that were a bit smaller.
Me: I have to be more centrally located and I dont want to take care of a house right now.
W: Just a suggestion.....your suggestion
Me: Mine?
W: Its ok ..... I will talk to you tomorrow
Me: Ok
I dont know where she was going with this, other than going back to my "suggestion" that we handle this as a S and put D on hold. I feel she wants me to live closer to her, but I need to be firm and have my space as well. We had pleasant conversation today, no tension. I also had the letting them go speech with a buddy who has been on and off with his GF. Again feels good to share the wisdom learned from these boards.
