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[Zoo]

Hey Sage

I'm all for the just asking (suspicion free) "what is this for?" without bringing up the gas thing.

My H does this to me constantly...I'll be getting ready to balance the bank account and ask him if he used the cc or took any money out. H will tell me "no". I'll pull the bank statement up and find that he has indeed used the cc or whatever I just ask "what was the charge for $xx.xx at _______? I need to know so I can put it in quicken" H will think for a few min and then say "oh, i forgot I bought_____."

H thinks nothing of it when I ask him like this

Of course, I DO wish that he wouldn't forget so much...it does make it difficult on my budget at times

Hugz,
Zoo