The weekend has been better than any since she dorpped the bomb, not the R but me personally. I have a different perspective on the goings on in the house.
W has accused me of acting like things were going to be ok, as in the M will be ok. Actually I realized today that SHE is acting that way. We get along fine most of the weekend and that was what made them hard on me. We work together, talk, joke, touch, anytihng she can't do (open jars, move ladder, etc) she comes to me and asks me to do it. Just like we were happily married. Now for the real problem. The kids. S is having a very hard time with W and how she behaves. He sees it all, and does not approve and does not understand her reasoning. It had gotten to where he is calling her names and disrespecting her, she just looks at me like I'm supposed to fix it.
What I think is that they see us gettign along all weekend, even though we sleep in sep rooms and that causes the stress of them being told we're getting D but it feels like we happy and get along.
My L has said not to leave house but I think it would be the best thing for the kids, at least they would not get mixed signals. It could cause a problem for me in legal terms for the kids. Has anyone done the apartment where the parents switch out each week and did it effect the outcome of the custody?
