Well I just received my girls back from a week with there mom. Oldest 8 told me that they spent the week at grandpas cabin and low and behold OM was there with his two kids. My oldest said that mom said she was going to sleep with with us. Get out of bed thinking we were sleeping and left the room. I know my wife is in a full blown PA. Once wife picked up the girls and said where she was going I new she would spend the week with OM. I am so done...mentally and physically. I am so discussed she would try and pull some BS with my oldest daughter on where wife was sleeping. DISCUSTED... Done. As fare I am concerned there will be no friendship with wife .. all business...no more no less. Am I surprised no... are my parents suprised ..very. No more said. Not sad not disappointed not concerned not worried .........do not care.