sometimes when we ponder over something small we end up comming to all kinds of conclusions and assumptions on our own that are way off base...instead of just point blank with out assumptions or judgements or suspissions just ask..what's this?
then of course you can make assumptions and all that about the response you get but at least you'll have gotten an answer to work with...right now your just tourturing yourself over something that in the end you may just laugh at.
so my thought is this...if the bill is still there when you and h are home this evening...just pick it up...glance over it...notice the aol charge and ask about it (I wouldn't suggest mentioning the gas charge off the bat) and see where that leads you.
or to be more direct you could simply ask...gee I noticed the charges are for x and y and recall on the phone you saying it was x and z...I don't see z here?
