This is one of those nether region things where some people on the board suggest that my calling for her is "pursuing" and being a marionette or co-dependent or cake-eating. I see it as being helpful (I would do same for any friend, and I have had other people ask me to do same cause of my background). Thoughts?
Why ask for our thoughts, if you're just going to summarily dismiss them, and keep on pursuing anyway?
(And this time, it was actually "rescuing" more than "pursuing," but still ...)
