I'm wondering if this is something really innocent.
I mean, he wouldn't just leave the bill around for you to catch him in a lie. From the stuff you've said about him, he's smarter than that!
So...that's the weird part...He DID lie...told me the charge was "gas" when it was AOL (told me this over the phone..) so leaving the bill laying out there just increases the odds that I do pick it up, see that he lied and ask him about it.
It'd be one thing if he had called me, read the charges and said "yikes, aol is still on here...what's up with that?" but that's not what happened.
There's nothing in h's behavior that makes me think that anything untoward is going on...but I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place because what I really want to say is "hey, why did you tell me the charge was gas when it was something else"....I dunno. maybe it's a way to springboard a discussion a la last weekend? "well, in the past if I told you that I forgot to do something you'd get really upset and I just got nervous..."
Sage (who has no inclination towards work today...maybe she should go see another movie!)
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.