Grit, Our timelines are so similar and our W's seem to be in similar places as are we, so I have a question for you......
There is no doubt in my mind that you have done the work, you have discovered that unconditional love, you have taken your journey and you have grown into a different person. Sure you will continue on that journey and you will continue to grow more but you have traveled far and there will come a point in time where you do change your mind about your stance.
If we have done all the hard work, answered all the hard questions, and our actions are reflecting who we are.....how do we know when it is time to stop standing and "move on"? And I do mean "move on".
I only ask this as I myself am feeling things change within me, I am starting to question how much longer do I stand. If I have truly done the work how would I know that it is time?
What I am getting at here is that the place we arrive at that allows us to stand for our M's in a healthy manner is probably the same place that allows us to leave our M's in an equally healthy manner. Sooooo.....how do I discern the difference or is it even possible?
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
